Family
Time
When my family and I moved from China to Chicago, I
figured out that we had a family time problem. Now that we are here, my family is
very happy that we had the chance to come to the United States, but everyone in
my family is very busy because my parents need money to support the family. In
addition, my sister and I are busy with studying in college. My family only has
one day a week to get together in Chicago. It has also affected my sister’s and
my education because we can’t share some things about our school with our
parents. I haven’t even taken a trip with my family. Since my family moved to
Chicago, there have been significant changes to our family structure due to our
new busy lives.
First, my family and I have decreased our communication
because we have less time to spend time with each other. Each of us has
different schedules, but in China, my family and I spent time together every
day. Now, my parents work in the restaurant for twelve hours, and only have one
day off a week. However, in Guangdong, China, my parents only worked eight
hours a day and had two days off each week. It’s a custom in China for people
to have two hours to go home to eat lunch with their family; during that time,
we could talk and share what I learned in school. My parents used to share
their work experiences with me, but this custom has changed. Now when my
parents come back from work, I am usually asleep. However, when I wake up in
the morning, they are still sleeping. When we have a chance to meet each other,
we don’t even have any comment to share with each other. After my family and I immigrated
to Chicago, we missed our connection with each other because we did not have the
same experiences that we had in China.
Furthermore,
our time for recreation has also disappeared when my family and I came to Chicago.
My parents always think about how to earn more money from work because they
want to use money to provide a better life for my sister and me. My parents
also spend a lot of time at work because we need to pay rent, car payment, taxes
and other bills every month. Back in China, my family did not need to pay any
property tax. Also, the house that my family and I lived in we inherited from
previous generation, but in Chicago we had to start from scratch. In China, we
only payed the price of the house after we pay it off, then we were done with
the house. Living in Chicago, my family and I have lost a lot of joy because my
parents spend most of time working and less time with my sister and me.
Finally,
my family also used to be an important part of my education. In Chicago, my
parents are very busy with their job, so I have lost their support in my
education. In addition, my parents do not know any English, and they cannot
help me with my homework. When I was in China, my parents spent most of the
time with me doing homework and sent me to tutoring. After I came to Chicago,
my family did not ask me if I wanted tutoring. In addition, since I started
school here, they do not care about how or what I learn. My parents’ only say,
“Study hard now, so you will find a better job.” If I try my best to finish my
education, I am not sure that I will have a job to support my family because I
know that are many unemployed people in the United States. My parents want to
help me with my education, but they cannot because of the language difference.
The only thing that they can tell me is to study hard.
It
is impossible to go back; we can only move forward. Moving to Chicago made my
family and I change our whole lives. My parents only focus on money because they
need money to support the family which means that I lost a lot the part of adolescent
time with my family. This experience of moving to the United States that my
family has been bittersweet.
I like the words "bittersweet" and "move forward".
ReplyDeletethank you
DeleteYour story totally touch my heart
ReplyDeletereally?
Deletei like your story; the whole of essay is shown my voice in my heart. family time were less after our family came to the USA. on the other hand, i become more independent.
ReplyDeletebecause we are immigrant to American
DeleteGreat writing! Your essay is clear and organized. I like your conclusion and your idea ---"It is impossible to go back; we can only move forward". Yes, work hard and move forward to a better life even though immigrating to the United States has been bittersweet.
ReplyDeleteyes, we need to move forward.
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ReplyDeleteI also wrote about family time I can relate how you feel because I feel the same way. I think you have really interesting ideas and the vocabulary that you use. thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeletethanks
DeleteYour essay took all my attention because I feel the same way. I only see my brothers on Saturday. I also think in the same way that you.
ReplyDeleteseeing each other is important
DeleteYour essay took all my attention because I feel the same way. I only see my brothers on Saturday. I also think in the same way that you.
ReplyDeletei have same situation as yours. when my family moved to chicaogo, we have less time to stay together to share our experience about our job or school. i was so missing that the time i can sit arround the table and have so "dim sum" with my family.
ReplyDeletei really agree with you opinion, because i have a same situation. when my family moved to the U.S. our life became better, but we lost many family time.
ReplyDeletei really agree with you opinion, because i have a same situation. when my family moved to the U.S. our life became better, but we lost many family time.
ReplyDeleteAwww Ting Ting,
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad. You have a family and you don't see each other at all. They work hard for you. I don't know what is better for you be in China or In US but it is great you have a family together. Surprise you mom and day and take them somewhere one day.
I liked the way you organized your essay.
I agree with you ! In United States, everybody are busy, and it is hard to have family time together.
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